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About Us- Myself- and My 3 sons- Hi, I am a Happily divorced ( did I forget to mention- Happily? ) 42 year old mom to 3 sons. My oldest son resides in Heaven and has since 1997- at the young age of 12- we miss him dearly- but include him in our daily lives as we know that even though he may not be here physically- he is here spiritually and now an angel in heaven as well as he was an angel on earth. Love you so much Kenny ! Thankfully, faith and the knowledge we will once again be re-united keeps us going- although- it would be a lie- if I stated it is any easier now ( 8 yrs later - ) than it was the year he walked through those pearly gates- whomever said - it gets easier- was wrong- you just adjust - you have to- but the hole stays the same size. -But - like I said- , one day- we all will be together again- myself and the 3 boys shall be happy in Heaven and have the life that they should have had at least a small taste of here while on Earth. I have made an Online Memorial Tribute to my little Angel in Heaven and you can view that here: http://moondancer.150m.com/KBintro.html - now this site - you will have to send me an e-mail to get past the first page- as it is passworded- due to some past problems- but if you write me at immoondancer@mich1.net -I am sure that I will be able to trust that I can send you the password and know that it will go no further than to whom Ive given it to. I do hope to hear from you soon- as I want the world to know just how big of difference Kenny has made in so many lives.A little about me- Lets start from when I was a child- with the question of " What did I want to be when I grew up ?" - A Mother. My whole childhood- going to school etc- my life's plans were to be a Mother- this- I wanted more than anything on Earth- and am ever so delighted that I have been blessed with these 3 sons. I was always a stay -at-home Mother and never regretted being so- and never will. I did, however, go to college a few nights a week to get an associates degree- who would have thought that degree would have brought my sons and myself more damage than good- the years I spent learning the system- the system that changes day by day- minute by minute- it was a lot of work- I took legal assisting and would never advise anyone to go that direction . I had decided even back then to take yet another option which was Cisco training- 4 sessions and a certificate would have been acheived - but that did not happen- due to the " worlds worst divorce" as my now x promised me it would be - and that is the only promise he ever kept - by golly. So Cisco training was then placed on the back burner- after losing a child- then going through a nasty divorce- there was no way possible for my brain to allow the classes to " sink in." I figured after the divorce was final and everything was in place- that I would finish it up then. That never happened and most likely never will. I grew up with aches and pains/ bruised easily/ lived with many problems of muscular cramps etc but never thought it -anything more than " bruising easy". Doctors always told Mother to give her kids more vitamins- well- if only they knew then- what we know now- they would have laughed at their remedy- as I have found out- actually it was discovered the same year the divorce began- that all my problems were a part of what I have finally been diagnosed with ( 3 yrs ago now ) - which is called " Ehlers Danlos Syndrome." I , of course- being housebound for the last 3 yrs and prior to that due to pain which was not acknowledged or often ridiculed by not only my x and some of his family but also some doctors- began learning website building to help take my mind off my pain level- I downloaded a chat program called ICQ - you can get that here: http://www.icq.com and just before I had thought about deleting that chat program because of meeting some "flakes" ( yes- I know this shocks you all- there can be flakes online LOL - as in real life too though - one just has to be careful- offline and online ) but like I was saying- I met a wonderful person by looking at profiles in the chat program- trying to find friends- instead of "goofballs" - and this friend was a Godsend- definitely an intervention by the Lord himself. His name is George D. Kelly - and he lives in Indiana. His information in his profile stated he was a happily married man- totally head over heels in love for the Lord-" - I threw a message his way and we have been friends ever since........ had I not met him when I did, - Icq would have never been given another chance. He and his lovely wife Nancy- although I do not speak much to her- ( she's got quite a busy lifestyle - but she's a total doll- wonderful lady - and we have written in the past and I have to send her a huge thanks for letting me into their lives and allowing me to become friends with them both! ) I do hope - one day - to meet this couple in person. George was into FellowShip In Love- an Online Ministry- and got me involved in it- by inviting me to prayer sessions held via the chat program. At first - I was shy and stayed quiet and on the side - watching the text flow in the chat room he made- but went away from the sessions feeling so refreshed. Of course-, I there met more wonderful friends and they too- are still in my life ( online ) to this day- it has been approximately 5 years now- and I've become leader of the Online Ministry and love it- I will admit that it needs to be put into action again- it is still going but not as much as I would like it to be- but that has a lot to do with the events that have taken place in my life in the past 3 yrs- The divorce, the illness- which of course- I made a website explaining my illness as well- you can read up about that here: http://moondancer.150m.com/ehlers.html - There are so many types of Ehlers Danlos Syndrome- and I am in the middle of placing that information on the site as well- but it is under construction at this point but that url is here : http://moondancer.150m.com/types.html - if you go to any web search engine - and put in Ehlers Danlos syndrome- you will find a lot of info on this. One day, I hope to have available the urls - as links from my site so that it is easier to access from here - rather than have to go through search engines. I am in many support e-groups for this particular syndrome- and I will place all those groups on another page- if after you've read my Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and Me page- , and you think this is something that you may have or know someone who may have it or just want to get more involved- then please feel free to go join those groups as well- I am sure the owners would love to have you. One of the main goals is to get this information more known- many are so uninformed about it as it is rare- so the more knowledge that gets out there- the better. Doctors are just beginning to hear more about this syndrome and hopefully learning about it by information put out by various EDS foundations- one in particular that is really helpful- they will even send out CDs so doctors can know more about this - is EDNF.org - http://www.ednf.org - It is pretty obvious that although my son passed without this diagnosis- that this is what he had- it is genetic and I have little doubt that he passed from anything other than this after having researched and seeing what all is involved in it. Remember- if you are interested in learning more about this, go to the ehlers info that I input up there a ways ^ - and be sure to check out links that lead to others groups and such- """ As I stated - this site is under construction- so I am sure that this will have more added to it in the near future- I am doing the basic layout and of course will fill in as time allows""" Thank you for your patience.So far- you've pretty much learned that I've always wanted to be a Mother- , that I love my kids to death- and that I 've taken up legal assisting ( wish I had not ! )- that I've stopped Cisco training to take up at a later date ( won't happen - most likely ) - that I love the Lord and His Mother Mary with all my heart- and that I am now housebound with this syndrome- so with all that in mind- one would think- I would get bored being housebound for this many years eh? My only outings in the past 3 yrs have been to court- and to docs and hospitals- not quite what anyone dreams of doing with their life lol ( especially for getting out in the world ) . I have found though- that even being housebound- still does not give one enough time in one day to get much accomplished- there are many things on my to-do list ( of course that to-do list is different than it would have been before the surgeries ) but Ive replaced those to-do's with new to-do's and still have little time to finish all I want to do because I can not tell from one minute to the next- how I will feel- so I just do what I can- rest when I must- , and try to make the most of each day. Stress is a real buggar for me as it wears/tires my body out instantly- but show me one person who does not have stress in their life - doesn't happen - I am dealing with much more than I should have to be though- but I will not go into that yet at this point- but I will place that info here soon as well. This site has sat here for some time now as I have a few in the making and can only do bits and pieces of things any longer - rather than sit down and finish a whole site at one time any longer due to this condition- etc. so I decided that I was going to get this started - and looks like I'm at least accomplishing some of that tonight ! Woohoo! - I have many sites I've made - that I pretty much just need to update- and organize here at Mich1 - so it should not be too long of a process once I get the umph to gather all the information and get it moved here- where it belongs. Patience is a virtue - I will accomplish it- and it will be a huge feat for me. I love working on sites- and have also made some for friends- family and still have some of those in the making- this is my relaxer- I thought about setting up a website - trying to do webdesign for a few dollars- ( this was before divorce- lol- for those of you not married- even if it makes no money- like mine didn't - - I don't think its a good idea to try if your going to end up having it used against you- wow the way people can twist things - ya know ! ? ) - anyhow- it does not bother me really that it did not take off and become a booming business because there is just no way I would be able to keep up with it - considering. The last thing that I am going to add to this page tonight ( March 23, 2005 ) is that for approx 3 years ( about when diagnosed and down in wheelchair - bored out of my gourd )- I also opened a chat room on Paltalk called IMMoonDancer's ~True Friendships last forever. Needless to say- I've met many great people via this chat program- as well as I did through ICQ- the room is in the music category- very G-Rated and we'd love to see you stop in. I am getting tired lol- I am not sure if I already input that info above or not- so if I'm being repetitive- please forgive me- I am on quite a few medications - but normally very coherent- lately have an added problem though - a toothache! on top of it all lol - go figure- , well - with the syndrome- getting teeth yanked is not something doctors or the patient really look forward to- so am putting it off as long as possible- and have found that an over the counter medicine called driixoral seems to be helping the pain with that quite well- can't figure out though why the huge amount of pain meds I am on do not touch the toothache but o well - one does what one needs to do- , so I take that extra little sinus medication for now- it works for 12 hrs- but along with the other meds- it sure makes me drained and tired- so Im finally getting a bit more sleep than before- normally my sleep pattern is one of abnormality beyond my control- 2 hrs here- 2 hrs there- so on that note- now you know why I'm too tired to do any more to this particular page tonight- the words are all beginning to mix together- hmmmmmmm I must be tired - again - so off I go for another couple hours of sleep- wish me luck ! I will be back soon- to finish this page up-- Thanks for stopping in and May God bless ! Hugs and Much love- Moon ( TJ )
need to add more info about the room- don't forget the PSP addict you are ( yes I'm talking to myself ;-) SSI- The boys ages and how/where they are now in life The Cats! all 3 of them ! Past life of petshop/machine shop All the Moon Babies LOL Admins that help in the paltalk room ( I will no doubt add more here as my mind stretches some ) Last revised- November 6th, 2005. |
